WARNING: LOW BATTERY!

Kathleen Gramzay

The red light comes on and the scramble begins - where's that charger or outlet? In airports and crowded public spaces, we vie for the coveted position closest to the three-pronged resuscitator of modern life. Perhaps otherwise reluctant to converse with strangers, the need for recharge breaks the silence barrier: "Can I plug in here?" 


Keeping our batteries charged has become a high priority in our technological age, and we have built in habits to ensure we're not left stranded.  We have multiple chargers and multiple outlets; we ritually plug our phones into their home or office stations.

There is another more important battery to be sure is operating on full current - your body/mind battery. Its main source of recharge? Sleep.

It's common knowledge that sleep impacts health. Here are some critical functions that happen while the eye shades are down:

•   tissue repair
•   muscle growth
•   growth hormone release (especially needed for vitality as we age)
•   protein synthesis


Sleep affects cognitive brain function, memory and the ability to learn new things, as anyone who has ever struggled with an exam or work presentation after a poor night's sleep can attest. 


There is a big difference between lying in a bed for a number of hours or getting delicious, deep, restorative, regenerative sleep. Have you ever plugged into the last open plug at the airport or coffee shop only to find it's loose? The connection is intermittent, your indicator shows it's kind of charging and then not, and then charging again? 



That is what happens when our sleep is interrupted or we go to bed with a mind that is processing stressful thoughts, violent images or sounds. We are not able to solidly connect into the deep REM sleep where all those life-sustaining and enhancing processes occur. 

Our body/mind low battery signal looks like:

•  not wanting to get out or having to drag yourself out of bed

•  dependence on caffeine or sugar to get the jump start or stave off the afternoon brain fade

•  lack of ability to focus

•  increased reaction to minor life inconveniences - less patience, more irritability


New parents are particularly familiar with the challenges of sleep deprivation. Sleep deprivation in the extreme has been documented in sleep studies where animals deprived entirely of sleep lose all immune function and die within weeks. No wonder when we're sick, our bodies crave sleep to support our immune system's ability to fight infection and restore health. There is no doubt, good sleep is imperative for good health. 

If you would like to increase your vitality, brain function and ability to cope with stress, you can intentionally plug in nightly to improve the quality of your sleep and enhance the quality of your days.

Yes, it may require that you change some long-standing evening habits. But, if you find yourself dragging through your days waiting for 5 o'clock, I invite you to try them for two weeks and see if you notice an increase in energy, focus and overall feeling of well-being.

Here's How:

Prepare yourself for great sleep. Limiting the mental and physical distractions prior to sleep will help assure solid sleep.


•  An hour or 90 minutes before bed, turn off the TV or your computer so your subconscious mind is not trying to process violence or a lot of data while you sleep. 

•  Limit late evening food and libations. If your body energy is directed to processing food, alcohol or sugar it is not as effectively available for cellular repair and immune system recharge.

•  Read something uplifting or listen to something soothing right before bed that you mind can process that is to your benefit.

•  Make your room dark and silent. Even if you don't wake up, lights and sounds can draw you up out of restorative REM sleep. 

•  If you use your phone as your alarm, put it in airplane mode to silence the other notification sounds your brain is used to listening for.

•  Make your sleeping space a place of respite - cozy and comfortable and free of clutter.

•  Most importantly, get enough sleep - seven to eight hours to awake refreshed.


Mornings are much brighter (or for non-morning people - at least more tolerable) with good sleep.  Here's to you getting it and your recharged battery.


Sweet dreams,

Kathleen

By Kathleen Gramzay July 10, 2025
No matter how useful artificial intelligence is, it’s critical to remember one thing: Leadership is still—irrefutably—human. While AI excels at logic, speed, and efficiency, it lacks the heart, ethics, and vision that define great leadership. The most effective managers and executives bring something to the table that algorithms can’t replicate: emotional depth, contextual judgment, and the ability to inspire. Here are 10 essential human leadership qualities that remain irreplaceable in the age of AI. 1. Emotional Intelligence: Leading with Empathy Emotional intelligence (EQ) is more than just being nice—it’s the ability to sense, understand, and respond to human emotions and needs. When a team is under stress, a good leader doesn’t just push deadlines. They read the room. They pause, listen, and then provide the resources their people need to be and engage as their best selves. AI can detect sentiment, but it can’t genuinely care. That human ability to say “I understand” or “you have my support” and mean it and follow through on it, builds trust, loyalty, and psychological safety—core ingredients of high-performing teams. 2. Ethical Judgment: Navigating the Gray Areas Business decisions often require navigating complex moral terrain—choices where the right path isn’t clear. Should we prioritize profit or people? Should we launch a product that’s technically legal but socially questionable? These aren’t decisions that can be made by optimizing for data points. They require human leaders with integrity, lived experience, and a moral compass that machines simply do not possess. 3. Creativity and Vision: Seeing What Doesn’t Yet Exist AI can analyze what has happened and make predictions about what might happen—but only humans can imagine something entirely new. True visionaries see around corners. They dream, take creative risks, and shape future opportunities from abstract ideas. They cultivate a culture that enables their teams to carry them out. Whether it’s launching a revolutionary product or rethinking a business model, these leaps of imagination are powered by healthy human brains, not a neural network. 4. Motivation and Inspiration: Moving Hearts, Not Just Metrics People don’t follow data—they follow purpose. Great leaders energize their teams not with charts, but with conviction and connection. They tell stories, share values, and create a shared mission that sparks passion. AI might generate performance dashboards, but it can’t walk into a room and inspire people to go the extra mile during hard times. Leadership requires presence, vulnerability, and authenticity. 5. Cultural Intelligence and Inclusion Workforces today are global and diverse. Effective leaders understand cultural nuance, social identity, and how to create inclusive environments where everyone feels seen and valued. AI might translate languages, but it doesn’t grasp cultural meaning. It doesn’t know when to be subtle, when to be bold, or how to honor traditions. Only humans can lead with true cross-cultural sensitivity and build belonging through shared commonality and appreciation for the expanded brain-trust that diversity provides. 6. Adaptability in Uncertainty Leaders often must make decisions with incomplete data and shifting conditions. This is where human adaptability can shine. AI waits for patterns to emerge; humans lean into ambiguity. When a market suddenly shifts or a crisis hits, a strong leader pivots, improvises, and reassures others—not because a model told them to, but because they feel the moment demands it. 7. Mentorship and Personal Growth True leadership isn’t just about directing—it’s about developing others. Human leaders mentor, coach, and champion their team members, often becoming lifelong influences in people’s careers. That human-to-human investment—offering wisdom, encouragement, support, or tough love—is something no chatbot can emulate. 8. Relationship Building and Trust Trust is built over time, through shared experiences, emotional honesty, and consistent behavior. It’s delicate, hard-won, and essential for collaboration. You can’t automate a bond. People trust people, not platforms. Conscious human leaders who demonstrate genuine care for the mental and physical well-being of their people foster loyalty, reduce turnover, and make workplaces more enjoyable and more resilient. 9. Storytelling: The Power to Connect and Align Data tells you what’s happening. A story tells you why it matters. Leaders use stories to rally teams, communicate vision, and create shared meaning during times of change. These narratives give work purpose beyond profits, connecting people to something greater than themselves. No AI can write a story that truly resonates the way a leader speaking from lived experience can. 10. Ethical Use of AI: Humans Must Lead the Machines It is up to human leaders to decide how AI is used. Will it promote fairness—or amplify bias? Will it empower people—or replace them irresponsibly? Only human beings can ask and answer those questions from a place of conscience. Leadership in the AI era includes being ethical stewards of technology, ensuring that innovation aligns with human values. The Bottom Line AI is a powerful tool—but it’s still just a tool. The heart of any organization lies in its people, and the soul of its success lies in conscious leadership. As companies embrace automation, they must double down on developing human-centered leaders—people who can think creatively, act ethically, adapt instinctively, and lead with empathy. The future of work will be built not just on what machines can do but as always, on what only humans can bring. ________________________________________________________________ Kathleen Gramzay is the Founder of Kinessage LLC. She is passionate about helping mission-driven leaders reduce burnout and recharge their resilience, to lead and succeed with greater positive ripple impact and reach. Kinessage LLC supports performance, culture, and human-conscious organizations, empowering leaders, managers, and teams to show up more effectively, confidently, and collaboratively through resilience strategy and training. The Kinessage® interactive body/mind training programs teach individuals neurosomatic skills to reduce burnout, build stress resilience, and self-release chronic tension and pain, increasing mental and physical resilience for greater individual and organizational success and sustainability. If you'd like to provide a deeper level of conscious engagement and effective resilience tools for your leaders or organization at your next monthly meeting, quarterly retreat, or conference, contact Kathleen directly Here.  If these articles resonate, I welcome you to comment, subscribe, or share them!
By Kathleen Gramzay July 10, 2025
In every great story, there’s an invisible force that weakens even the strongest heroes. For Superman, it’s kryptonite. For today’s workforce—especially its leaders—it’s uncertainty. The world is no longer dealing with occasional turbulence. We’re living in a time of persistent volatility: economic upheaval, global instability, rapid technological shifts, and mounting social pressure. For business leaders, this creates an urgent challenge—and a defining opportunity. Gallup’s 2025 Global Workplace Report lays it out plainly: manager burnout is now a systemic risk. The data shows that nearly 6 in 10 managers report being stressed at work, and employee engagement worldwide is 21 percent (as low as during the COVID 19 lockdown). Even more alarming? Most leaders are navigating this reality without the tools to support themselves, let alone the people they lead. This is not a leadership crisis. It’s a nervous system crisis. Stress: The Silent Saboteur of Performance Uncertainty doesn’t just make people uncomfortable—it dysregulates the human nervous system. When employees and leaders are exposed to chronic ambiguity, hypervigilance sets in. Focus narrows, creativity shuts down, and the brain prioritizes survival over strategic thinking. The result? Burnout, disengagement, conflict, and collapse of morale. What does unmanaged stress look like in the workplace? Missed deadlines and sluggish innovation High turnover, absenteeism, and presenteeism Managers emotionally checked out or over-functioning on empty Talent depletion across every level Gallup reports the cost of the fall of global engagement is $438B in lost productivity, and cites the manager engagement drop from 30% to 27% as its primary cause. The Report warns that if leaders don’t address this burnout epidemic, GDP loss on a global scale could be the long-term outcome. This is much more than an HR problem, it’s an economic imperative. Resilience: The Antidote to Kryptonite But here’s the good news: unlike kryptonite, uncertainty isn’t fatal—if we’re prepared. The human body and brain are wired to adapt. What’s necessary, is to build that blueprint potential into a practiced skill of real, embodied, enduring resilience that becomes the bodymind’s enhanced response to stress and uncertainty. Think of resilience as the organizational equivalent of muscle memory. When people learn how to regulate their stress response, recover from setbacks, and stay grounded amid chaos, they don’t just “cope”—they lead. They collaborate better, think more clearly, and act more decisively under pressure. And what happens when that skill is built across entire leadership teams? You get healthy, engaged people, and performance that lasts. Neurosomatic resilience training builds exactly this capacity—through nervous system regulation, stress load reduction, emotional agility, and mental flexibility. It’s about equipping people to thrive in the storm, not wait it out. The Business Case for Resilience The numbers speak for themselves: According to Gallup, highly engaged teams show 23% higher profitability and significantly lower turnover and absenteeism. Organizations that support employee well-being see up to 41% less burnout, higher productivity, and greater customer satisfaction. Cultures that prioritize resilience outperform in adaptability, innovation, and retention—key drivers of competitive advantage in a world of constant change. Resilience isn’t soft. It’s smart strategy. Leading Through, Not Around, Uncertainty We are long past the point of seeing burnout as an individual failure. It is a systems failure that the demands placed on people have outpaced their internal and collective capacity to meet them. As a leader, you have the power to flip the script. Instead of bracing for the next disruption, what if your people were equipped to move through it—calm, creative, and collaborative? Instead of treating well-being as a sideline initiative, what if it became your organization’s strategic foundation? Instead of fighting to sustain yesterday’s momentum, what if you built the nervous system strength required to lead into what’s next? The Path Forward A resilient organization starts with resilient leaders. It starts with the decision to treat people not as resources to be optimized, but as human beings with interdependent systems that require support - mind, body, and spirit. Resilience training is not a luxury. It’s the core infrastructure for future-ready business. It builds the internal capacity your people need to meet the external demands your industry will inevitably face.. Uncertainty isn’t going away. But burnout, disengagement, and stress-related decline don’t have to be your story. Here’s a simple start of 3 basic practices to weave into your day: 1. Regulate Before You React In high-stress moments, take a pause before responding. Use a simple nervous system regulation tool—take 5 deep diaphragmatic breaths to center yourself. This models calmness for your team and improves your decision-making clarity. 2. Create Micro-Moments of Recovery Resilience isn’t built in isolation—it’s built in the flow of the workday. Integrate short, regular recovery practices: a 5-minute walk, hydration breaks, digital detox zones, or brief mindfulness pauses. These reset your energy and help prevent burnout from accumulating. 3. Normalize Conversations About Capacity and Act on the Feedback. Build psychological safety by regularly asking your team, “What’s one thing you need to feel more supported this week?” This opens the door for honest communication and reinforces a culture where human limits are respected—not ignored. Key point: demonstrate positive action on the feedback to walk your talk and make real headway in building trust. Resilience is the superpower. Are you ready to intentionally build it into your organization? ___________ Kathleen Gramzay is the Founder of Kinessage LLC. She is passionate about helping mission-driven leaders reduce burnout and recharge their resilience, to lead and succeed with greater positive ripple impact and reach. Kinessage LLC supports performance, culture, and human-conscious organizations, empowering leaders, managers, and teams to show up more effectively, confidently, and collaboratively through resilience strategy and training. The Kinessage® interactive body/mind training programs teach individuals neurosomatic skills to reduce burnout, build stress resilience, and self-release chronic tension and pain, increasing mental and physical resilience for greater individual and organizational success and sustainability. If you'd like to provide a deeper level of conscious engagement and effective resilience tools for your leaders or organization at your next monthly meeting, quarterly retreat, or conference, contact Kathleen directly Here.  If these articles resonate, I welcome you to comment, subscribe, or share them!
By Kathleen Gramzay July 10, 2025
Humanity is at a paradoxical crossroads. We are wired for greatness, but chronic stress has short-circuited our potential. Why is this an issue? Under chronic stress or burnout, greatness isn’t an accessible menu option. What then determines whether we can access our greatness and embrace our collective capacities to solve the significant shared human challenges, or devolve into threat-based, fearful people who believe the only way to survive is to dominate others, take as much as we can get right now, and let everyone not like “us” fend for themselves? - The conditioned state of our nervous system, our awareness of it, and our conscious will to reclaim sovereignty over it. Chronic stress conditions us to respond as threatened prey or predator. Stress resilience conditions us for problem-solving, long-range decisions, and positive action under pressure. Perhaps you’re familiar with this scenario: The leader shows up smiling and in a good mood; everyone breathes a collective sigh of relief and relaxes with a sense it’s going to be a good day. The next day, the leader shows up barking orders and demanding everything NOW. Instantly, each person’s nervous system goes into its individual aspect of survival mode. Communication goes from collegial to cutthroat or no communication at all. Strategic thinking, positive engagement, and creativity are neurologically offline. The collective goal is sacrificed to reactionary individual protection and safety. Like a network of computers, human nervous systems respond relative to those with whom they interact. The fact is, business leaders aren't just managing employees, they're managing human nervous systems. And more critically, they are either regulating or dysregulating them. Our wiring has been burning for a while, fueled by the pandemic, distrust, invasions, and political upheavals that continue to disrupt personal-to-global relationships, supply chains, markets, and the world economy. Consider data from leading industry sources: Senior-leader and manager burnout levels: 50 -70% (SHRM, Gallup, McKinsey) Employee burnout levels: 88% (Forbes/MyPerfectResume) U.S. employee active engagement: 32% (Gallup) The ripple effects of employee disengagement/burnout are exponential: Economic : (American Journal of Preventive Medicine April ‘25) Annual Cost Per Employee $3,999–$20,683 (hourly to executive) Equal to 0.2–2.9 times average health insurance and 3.3–17.1 times employee training costs Human : The mental, emotional, behavioral, and physical health of each person The contagious dysregulating impact on others around them In the leader survival mode example above, the workday is unproductive and the ripple effect continues. Impacted employees unconsciously vent their emotions perhaps by cutting off someone in traffic, being rude to a convenience store clerk, or berating a family member for not doing a task at home, causing more separation and survival mode behavior. We know it’s necessary to care for business operating systems. We spend big budgets maintaining and protecting them. We understand they must be defragged, updated, and rebooted if we expect them to run efficiently and continue working well. Our human operating systems - our consciousness, mental, and physical states of being - are infinitely more powerful, resilient, and expansive. Yet they are less understood, less valued, and less prioritized. Our intellect has brought us far in terms of technology. Yet it’s our human operating system - the state of the body/mind, our mental and physical felt sense of safety, that determines whether we direct that technology to benefit everyone or use it to fuel division, hatred, greed, and chaos. It begs the question: Why are we willing to invest heavily in artificial intelligence yet allocate little budget to stop the deterioration of human intelligence and health at a time when every human’s highest capacity is critically needed to optimize our advancements? To successfully navigate today’s tumultuous world, we must consciously upgrade our human capacity to live and lead through it. How? Prioritize (budget & model) mental and physical restoration to reduce chronic stress and its corrosive effect on humanity and business. Resilience is a leadership necessity, not a luxury. Leverage neurosomatic (body/mind) skills to turn stress into strength activating the innate intelligence that fuels creativity, and connection of our greater Selves. We can defrag our minds, remove the toxic files from our bodies, and reboot our desire to positively engage with each other. Operating through our higher-order thinking minds and hearts we can draw from the collective wisdom of coherence and reason for human success and sustainability. The capacity of these body/minds is regenerative and expansive. By investing in and applying resilience to all aspects of our human intelligence – neurosomatic, emotional, and intellectual, we can regain our sovereignty to individually and collectively move ourselves, our families, communities, businesses, nations, and humanity forward. In future posts, I’ll share practical applications to enhance resilience in yourself and your teams. Follow along as we recharge our collective resilience. If these articles resonate, I invite you to comment, subscribe, or share them.  ___________ Kathleen Gramzay is the Founder of Kinessage LLC. She is passionate about helping leaders of mission-driven organizations reduce burnout, and recharge their resilience, to lead and succeed with greater positive ripple impact and reach. If you'd like to provide a deeper level of conscious engagement and effective resilience tools for your leaders or organization at your next monthly meeting, quarterly retreat, or conference, please contact Kathleen directly Here. Kinessage LLC supports performance, culture, and wellness-conscious organizations, empowering leaders, managers, and teams to show up more effectively, confidently, and collaboratively through resilience strategy and training. The Kinessage® interactive body/mind training programs teach individuals skills to reduce burnout, build stress resilience, and self-release chronic tension and pain, increasing mental and physical resilience for greater individual and organizational success and sustainability. You can find out more at www.kathleengramzay.com
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